Welcome

Before We Say Hello is about becoming the best version of yourself while thoughtfully discovering your relationship desires and boundaries.

Have you ever met someone and been instantly taken over by butterflies and warm fuzzies just from standing near them? Butterflies and warm fuzzies are great, but those cannot cause you to cast caution to the wind and forgo common sense and good reasoning. A healthy balance of both is a good goal.

If you were preparing a meal for someone, would you just throw some things on the table and call it a meal? Is a table full of unseasoned raw meat, uncooked carrots, and potatoes appetizing? No. Hopefully, you would prepare each dish carefully, with proper seasoning, warmth, and presentation. Same with us; let’s thoughtfully prepare. There are six key aspects that we will address in this project.

1)Physical

2) Spiritual

3) Emotional

4) Financial

5) Social

6) Recognize and stand by your non-negotiables

Are you the best that you can be in any of those areas? Do you want to throw a mountain of debt onto the table in front of a future spouse? While they may love you, is this really the best way to start and manage a life together? Any one of those six areas that are out of balance could affect how you join your life with someone down the line. Balancing an area out requires work, but work that is well worth it, not just for a potential spouse, but worth it for you.

Becoming the best version of yourself can cultivate self-worth and self-love. You will be less likely to accept just anything for yourself in terms of relationships. This helps immensely with establishing relationship desires, non-negotiables, and boundaries, and with promptly addressing any red flags you may see. Too many people look for someone to love and value them when they don’t love and value themselves. It is out of order, and good people end up tolerating a lot of mess for the sake of appearances. Love starts with you loving and valuing who you are.

Before We Say Hello isn’t just about capturing someone’s heart; it’s about helping you become the best version of yourself. If you meet someone special, great, you have done the work, and you are ready. If there is a delay in meeting your person, you are still a rockstar because you addressed key areas, and your life is better and fuller because of the work you have done.

With that, are you ready? Are you ready to do the work before you say….Hello?